* fix: memoize all non-function form props by default
* chore: migrate useStableFormOpts to useMemo
* fix: options passed to useField will not always cause a re-render
* chore: minor code cleanups
* test: add previously failing test to demonstrate fix
* chore: fix linting
* fix: running form.update repeatedly should not wipe form state
* test: add test to validate formapi update behavior
* test: add initial tests for useStableOptions
* chore: remove useStableOpts and useFormCallback